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Fornication..Is It Worth It?  To Whom it May Concern, and You Know Who You Are!

MARRIED 5 TIMES BY AGE 34! (My True Story! "Woman at the Well - Get Past the Pain!") at a critical point in my life I had to stop and ask myself some hard, painful questions. All of the men that I stepped outside of the will of God and gave myself to sexually, where are they now? What seemed like fun and the fulfillment of my desires was only an illusion, a short-lived illusion at that. Although I was doing my thing..fornicating, sinning, my spirit was dying on the inside, for the end of that fulfillment, that Sin is death!

My excuse was that I did not want to be ALONE, I just wanted to be LOVED both emotionally and physically, but I learned the hard way that you can't get around God! Only what you do in Christ will last!
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I had to realize that the love that I was searching for only God could fullfil. After running from man to man, relationship to relationship and marriage to marriage I had to come to the painful realization that having sex was not the cure to my loneliness, to my pain, because most of the time after the deed was done that familiar pain, longing and desire was still there!

Romans 5:21 says "But then what benefit did you get from the things of which you are now ashamed? None, for the end of those things is death."

My Sisters and Brothers in Christ, I am a witness that there was "No Benefit" from my Fornicating, having sex outside of marriage, but there was Plenty of Shame!

Be encouraged! Hold on! Don't let the enemy give you the Ishmael before the Isaac!

Excerpt from "Woman at the Well-Get Past the Pain!" by TK Jordan

Ronnie stopped by the store to get her usual cup of morning coffee. While standing in line waiting to pay she casually scaned the different headlines in the local newspapers. Suddenly Ronnie's eyes froze as her mouth fell open. "Can I help you Lady." The cashier asks, tired from his long night shift. Ronnie paid for the coffee, never taking her eyes from the newspaper rack. "Let me get this paper also." Ronnie said.

As she got into her car Ronnie buckled her seat belt, rested her head on the headrest and said a silent prayer for strength. Ronnie opened the paper holding her breath as she read the feature story of the beautiful wedding ceremony that
took place last weekend between the Mayor of Georgia's daughter and the man whom Ronnie had just left in bed...Perry.

I called Mama Hattie-Mae as soon as I got into the house.
"Hi Mama-Hattie." I said, my shaky voice already revealing that
something was wrong. Unable to hold back the dam that was only seconds from bursting, I hysterically began blurting out the news that I had just discovered about the love of my life, Perry. Then I waited, holding my breath for her response.

"Baby the love you are looking for is not in a man and it's not between the sheets." Mama Hattie Mae said. Hattie-Mae heart aches as she heard me sobbing, but her only business is Soul business.
"Go ahead and cry if you must. I'm not trying to hurt you baby, but I am trying to deliver your soul."
Mama Hattie-Mae knew how to cut you deep and she never used a knife! I believe that Surgery without anesthesia would be kinder.

"You see when you let God come on the inside everything that is not like Him has to go! that's right, Ronnie has to die so you can be the Woman of God that He has called you to be." Hattie Mae was relentless. You need to be led by the Spirit of God and not by your flesh! The devil wants to give you the Ishmael before the Isaac!"

Hattie-Mae looked at Ronnie in her broken down state as the compassionate love of God glimmered in her eyes. "All you want is True Love, the kind of love that a man would lay down his life for you. You've already got that man, Jesus, who loved you so much that He laid down his life. What M.A.N. can top that!"

"Stop searching baby, seek ye first the kingdom of God and His righteousness and all of these things will be added unto you. As a matter of fact, you don't even have to look for the man! Hey God!" Hattie-Mae shouts with a voice like a trumpet. "Just stand still and God will bring him to you, but you've got to go through the Process, You've got to deal with your Damage or it will defeat you every time!"

Hattie forged on. "THESE MEN DON'T LOVE YOU THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE LOVED BECAUSE THEY CANT! Stop expecting men to give you what they don't have! That's why you're never satisfied. They can't love you like Christ loves the Church because they don't know Christ! And let's just cut to the chase." She said firmly planting her hands on her hips. "These men aren't the problem anyway, you are the problem!" She yelled as she slammed her hand down on the table.

I interjected now, my feelings were truly hurt. "How could you say that Mama Hattie?" I sobbed uncontrollably. "I didn't say it, the Spirit said it! If you allowed God to heal you, then you would love You and you wouldn't even consider yoking yourself with someone who does not serve your God!"

After Mama Hattie-Mae finished there was nothing for me to say. I knew God had spoken through her. I had forgotten all about God. Not really forgotten about Him, but I just stopped trusting Him. There's really no cute way to put it, I gave up on God. The worst part was that I lost myself. Not only did I give up on God, I also gave up on me. I delayed my journey to my Purpose by returning to my yoke of bondage. TK Jordan

Ladies, we're moving from "Pain" to "Promise" and we're moving NOW! And we REFUSE to leave one SISTER behind!

For more info. on downloading this life-changing E-Book or to contact TK Jordan, please send an email request to vlphillips@yahoo.com or visit http://womanatthewell.bebo.com.

Remember, no matter what you've been through,
with God, you can "Get Past the Pain!"

TK Jordan - Author/Playwright
"Check Up On It" Faith-Based Youth HIV/STD Training.
"Woman at the Well-Get Past the Pain!"
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